Showing all posts tagged #interpersonal:

The silence is deafening

July 2nd, 2020

Imagine you're at a dinner party, and you're getting into a heated argument. As you start yelling, the other people quickly hush their voices and start glaring at you. None of the onlookers have to take further action—it's clear from their facial expre...

Language is like choosing which side of the street to drive on

November 16th, 2018

A debate I’ve come across again and again is whether language is objective or subjective. It tends to crop up in moments like when dictionaries update the word "literally" with contradictory definitions or when people argue that Ebonics isn't "correct"...

Re: Flaking

February 13th, 2018

Dan Wang emailed me with some interesting additional hypotheses regarding the question of flaking that I raised last week: I liked your piece on flaking. When I moved to New York, I found that flaking declined dramatically. So I think that any piece t...